article from praise they recognize their mistakes, but still maintain a good sense of self, and try to self-correct; when the child flashed upon the merits of drip, The After reading this book, I deeply feel that The relationship between family members become more harmonious, education, and will become more and more relaxed. I think this is also suitable for the education of our curb school education.
to the performance of poor children
Dr. Spencer told us a minute criticism will be very effective, as long as
1, the children have told me, when I can not accept their behavior, they will criticize them. I also encourage them to treat me equally frank.
criticism half a minute before the
2, I happened immediately after the criticism of children.
3, I specifically pointed out that they did something wrong.
4, I explicitly tell the children how their behavior makes me feel.
5, I was silent Ji seconds, creating an atmosphere of people very uncomfortable - let the children feel good I feel.
Criticism of half a minute
6, so I calmed down, to use body language to let the children know I'm always on their side.
7, I tell my kids, although they act just is not right, but I think they are still good boy.
8, I was a child, said: Criticism is over, all was over. I will not mention it.
9, later in the day, whether the children would like to say to me, I listen carefully.
10, I found that, although I only take a minute to criticize the child - because I love them - but the criticism of the minutes of the benefits they can give them a lifetime.
Dr. Spencer told us a minute to praise be very effective, as long as
1, I have told the kids that if they did something to my delight, I would commend them; I also encourage them to treat me the same way.
2, I tried to find the children a good performance.
3, I specifically told the children what they do.
4, then I told them how I brought these actions feel, and why they make me so happy.
5, I was silent for a moment, let them feel my heart quietly.
6, and then I tell them how much I love them.
7, finally, I give them a hug, pat them at least, let them know I care about them.
8, praise should be short and sweet, and once over, to let it go.
9, I found only a minute to praise the child, but give them a good sense of self, but will benefit them for life.
10, I know it to me and the kids are good. I feel really great.
Dr. Spencer told us that goal a minute can be very effective, as long as
1, as family members, we have some clear common goal, Family members each have their own goals,
2, we are all efforts to implement a common resolution, so you will feel from the family got what they wanted.
3, each of us a piece of paper with writing 250 words about their own goals - as long as one minute to read the target.
4, our goal is very specific, that we were to do what at what time, for example,
5, each of us regularly review their goals, and make a habit - a way of thinking.
6, I took a minute from time to time, compared to my goals and my behavior to see whether the two match.
7, I encourage my children to do likewise.
8, our family together every week to review the pleasure of our common goal, to see if we have no progress.
Dr. Spencer, we conclude that for a minute his father's I am also in the process to be happy. I look at the behavior of the children set goals, to give praise to criticism. I simply explain the facts and clearly express their feelings. I always hug the kids, laugh with them. I also encourage the kids like I do.
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